No, I don’t. How could I?
As I’m not that intuitive I can only feel mine. But, I can understand your frustrations. Maybe you are feeling stuck in a rut in your life or you have challenges that you’re facing. Is your relationship with your spouse making you unhappy? Do you have a weight issue? Is there too much month left at the end of your money?
Well, listen up, and you may not like what I’m going to say. Whatever is going on in your life right now, at this very moment – is all of your creation. You have created the reality that is your life – no one else.
Don’t like that? It’s true.
Hey, I’ve created some really crappy stuff in my life too. And, I’m sure that I’ll create/attract more.
But, I am not a victim. I realized that I have the power to change my circumstances if I choose – and so do you.
But, you have to change something – your mind. You have to change the way you think. You have to stop blaming others for your crap. They are responsible for their crap. And so it goes.
You want relief? Here are some steps that can change your mind and change your life.
1. Make a decision to change – right now. And, that decision means that you are committed to your new way of thinking and won’t ever, ever, ever let yourself go back to the way of thinking you had before you read this. You have to have a big reason WHY you want to do this. Example: I tell you to give me $5000.00, but you only have $2000.00 in your bank account. I tell you that if you don’t give me $5,000.00 in twenty four hours I am going to burn your house to the ground, with your pets inside. How committed will you be to getting that $3,000.00? You wouldn’t stop, you would do whatever it took (ethically and legally, I would hope) to get that money. And, you wouldn’t stop when you got tired, you wouldn’t stop because you didn’t feel you were worthy of the money, you wouldn’t stop for any reason. That’s the level of commitment to change that you need. Get it or stay where you are.
2. Don’t blame others for your circumstances. Blaming makes you a victim and victims have no personal power. It’s your mess, admit it and that will free you to move forward. Don’t blame yourself. What? Then who are you going to blame. Nobody, that’s who. You are just going to look at your circumstances as a learning experience, that’s what they are there for.
3. Fall in love. What? Fall in love – with yourself. We are taught from a young age not to think too much of ourselves – HOGWASH!! You have to love yourself to be good to yourself and to be able to love and give to others. So, cozy up to that bathroom mirror and give yourself a big SMOOCH!! Fall in love with who you are.
Okay, that’s enough for today. Do steps 1-3 above. Do them if you want change. No excuses – just DO THEM.
And, get ready for magic…..